Replacement or Renewal?
A 5-Step Covenant Reset for Struggling Marriages
Feeling drift? Emotional distance? Temptation at the edges? Before you replace what’s missing — learn how to rebuild it.
What’s in the Guide
Understanding the "Drift": Learn why marriage tension isn't usually an explosion, but a slow erosion—and how to identify it before it settles in.
The Self vs. Covenant Framework: Discover the visual shift that happens when "Self" replaces "Covenant" at the center of your relationship.
Identifying "Silent" Contempt: How to recognize the subtle behaviors—like sarcasm, scorekeeping, and emotional withdrawal—that quietly eat away at tenderness.
Vulnerability Assessment: A self-interrogation tool to help you determine if you are protecting yourself instead of opening yourself to your spouse.
The Problem
Most marriages don’t collapse overnight.
They drift.
• Resentment grows quietly.
• Emotional connection weakens.
• Outside validation starts to feel appealing.
• Conversations become defensive.
And many couples don’t know where to begin.
Drift Happens
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Renewal Is Possible
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Covenant Over Convenience
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Fight for Depth
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Intimacy Can Be Restored
Drift Happens ✳︎ Renewal Is Possible ✳︎ Covenant Over Convenience ✳︎ Fight for Depth ✳︎ Intimacy Can Be Restored
The Solution
This free guide will help you:
✔ Identify early signs of drift
✔ Understand unmet longings without shame
✔ Distinguish replacement from renewal
✔ Rebuild emotional and spiritual intimacy
✔ Establish covenant-centered practices
This Guide is For
Not every struggling marriage is broken beyond repair.
Sometimes it’s simply weary.
Distance forms slowly. Conversations become guarded. What once felt effortless now feels fragile. But if you still care — if there is even a small desire to rebuild — renewal is possible.
This guide was created for couples who don’t want to give up, but don’t know where to begin.
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You may feel the distance. The conversations aren’t what they used to be. The warmth feels inconsistent. And yet, underneath the frustration, you still care deeply about each other. That quiet care is not weakness — it’s a foundation. Renewal begins when love hasn’t disappeared, only drifted.
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It feels like you’ve had the same argument a hundred times — just with different details. You leave conversations feeling unheard, defensive, or exhausted. Patterns have formed, and you don’t know how to break them. This guide helps you identify those cycles and respond differently — with clarity instead of reactivity.
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You don’t want a marriage that simply avoids divorce. You want intimacy. Safety. Meaningful connection. Spiritual alignment. You want to feel known and chosen again. Depth requires intention — and renewal begins when both of you decide survival is not enough.
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You know marriage is sacred. Even in frustration, you believe your covenant matters. You’re not looking for escape — you’re looking for restoration. If you’re willing to fight for unity rather than ego, rebuilding is possible.