Pre Marriage/ Marriage

At Pillars, we recognize that the foundation of a healthy and successful relationship lies in the well-being and capabilities of each individual involved. Often, unhealthy behaviors and unmastered relational skills become more pronounced in intimate relationships. By gaining tools to eve begin to address these issues and enhancing your relational skills, fulfilling and meaningful connections become achievable. Allow us to assist you in deepening your intimate relationships.

Pre-Marital Counseling:

We offer a comprehensive pre-marital assessment and a tailored 6 to 12-week marriage preparation program designed to set you and your partner on a path toward a healthy, fulfilling union.

Marriage Counseling:

Whether you are navigating the early challenges of marriage, rekindling a lost connection after years together, or seeking healing from the impact of profound betrayal, we are here to support your journey back to happiness and hope for a brighter future. Trust in the process—recovery and joy are within reach. We offer a detailed marriage assessment that pinpoints specific areas of difficulty, so we can provide fresh and relevant insights and practical strategies. We will help you establish clear goals and equip you with the tools needed for effective and lasting change and we will encourage you along the way!

Marriage & Pre-Marriage Counseling FAQ

  • Marriage counseling at Pillars is designed to help couples strengthen their relationship, improve communication, resolve conflicts, and deepen their emotional and spiritual connection. We offer a safe space for couples to explore challenges, work through issues, and build a healthier, more fulfilling marriage.

  • Any couple, whether newlyweds or married for many years, can benefit from marriage counseling. Whether you’re facing specific challenges, seeking to enhance your relationship, or simply want to ensure you’re both on the same page, our counselors are here to help.

  • Pre-marriage counseling is for engaged couples or those considering marriage who want to prepare for a successful, lasting partnership. We help couples explore key topics like communication, finances, conflict resolution, family planning, and shared values, equipping them with the tools to build a strong foundation for marriage.

  • At Pillars, we offer faith-based counseling that integrates Christian principles for those who desire it. We can help couples explore their spiritual connection, align their values with their faith, and strengthen their relationship with God as part of their journey together. However, faith-based guidance is optional, and we respect the preferences of each couple.

  • Not at all. Many couples seek marriage counseling as a proactive step to nurture their relationship, improve communication, or deepen their connection. You don’t need to have a specific problem to benefit from the guidance and support. A counselor can help couples navigate both everyday issues and more serious challenges.

  • Pre-marriage counseling typically covers topics such as communication skills, conflict resolution, financial planning, roles and responsibilities, intimacy, family dynamics, expectations for marriage, and spiritual alignment. Our goal is to help couples discuss and address these important areas before tying the knot.

  • The duration of counseling varies depending on the needs of the couple. Some couples may benefit from a few sessions, while others may prefer ongoing support over several months. We tailor our approach to meet the unique needs of each couple, whether it’s short-term guidance or long-term counseling.

  • Pre-marriage counseling helps couples identify potential areas of conflict, develop healthy communication patterns, and create shared goals and expectations for their future together. It also offers a space to address any fears or concerns you may have about marriage and build a strong, resilient partnership.

  • It’s common for one partner to feel uncertain about counseling. We encourage open communication about the benefits of counseling and suggest attending an initial session together to explore how it can help. Our counselors are skilled at creating a welcoming environment that makes both partners feel comfortable and supported.

  • Yes, while Pillars offers faith-based counseling for those who want it, we also provide secular marriage and pre-marriage counseling. Our counselors are skilled in addressing relationship dynamics from a nonreligious perspective, focusing on communication, conflict resolution, and emotional support.

  • Getting started is simple! You can contact us through our website or call our office to schedule an initial consultation. We’ll help guide you through the process from there.

  • At Pillars, we are committed to providing compassionate and respectful counseling services to all couples. We welcome same-sex couples and provide support tailored to your unique relationship dynamics, helping you navigate your relationship challenges.

  • Yes, confidentiality is a top priority at Pillars. All counseling sessions are private, and your information will be kept strictly confidential in accordance with professional counseling standards.

  • If you’re committed to growing and strengthening your relationship, couples, marriage, or pre-marriage counseling could be a great step for you. Whether you’re facing challenges or simply want to deepen your connection and understanding of each other, counseling can offer valuable insights and tools to support your relationship.

Join us at Pillars, where we are committed to enhancing your relationships. People Matter and We Care!

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