Raising Real Men: A Practical Guide for Parents and Mentors
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of mentoring and guiding young men, helping them understand their identity in Christ, develop godly character, and grow into men of integrity and purpose. This guide is built on those years of mentorship, providing a concise, practical tool for parents and mentors to help boys become strong, godly men. It’s designed to be straight to the point—so that it can be used easily in everyday life.
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of mentoring and guiding young men, helping them understand their identity in Christ, develop godly character, and grow into men of integrity and purpose. This guide is built on those years of mentorship, providing a concise, practical tool for parents and mentors to help boys become strong, godly men. It’s designed to be straight to the point—so that it can be used easily in everyday life.
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of mentoring and guiding young men, helping them understand their identity in Christ, develop godly character, and grow into men of integrity and purpose. This guide is built on those years of mentorship, providing a concise, practical tool for parents and mentors to help boys become strong, godly men. It’s designed to be straight to the point—so that it can be used easily in everyday life.
How to Use This Guide
This guide is intentionally concise and focused, so you can apply it quickly and effectively. I designed it this way based on my approach to mentoring young men over the years—I’ve learned that simplicity and clarity are key. Here’s how you can get the most out of this guide:
1. Read and Reflect Together: Whether you’re using this guide as a family or in a one-on-one mentoring relationship, each section is meant to be discussed. Read it aloud, reflect on the key principles, and give boys the opportunity to ask questions and share their thoughts.
2. Engage with Practical Activities: Throughout the guide, you’ll find practical steps and reflection activities designed to help boys apply what they’ve learned. Encourage them to take the time to journal their thoughts, set personal goals, and actively engage with the material.
3. Incorporate Prayer and Scripture: Every chapter is grounded in Scripture. Help boys memorize key verses, reflect on their meaning, and apply them to daily life. Encourage them to make prayer a regular part of their routine, using it as a way to grow closer to God.
4. Model Godly Manhood: As a parent or mentor, you are one of the most important influences in a young man’s life. This guide is a tool to support you, but your example is crucial. Live out the principles of love, leadership, and integrity in your own life, and boys will follow your lead.
5. Keep It Simple: This guide is designed to be easy to use, without overwhelming you or the boys you’re mentoring. Go through each section at a pace that works for you, and focus on consistency. Spiritual growth is a journey, not a sprint.